MARRIAGE LIES ABOUT SINGLE PEOPLE AND ADVICE TO STAY POSITIVE
I know some people judge women based on their marital status and that has made some women taught that the only way to be happy or succeed is to find Mr right! (Husband) There are so many things that contribute to a person’s happiness, please we need to stop telling women lies about marriage. Relationships, family, hobbies , good friends and fulfilling careers can as well contribute to your happiness.
Marriage can be great but it’s not everything! It can be positively correlated with well-being, no doubt but the truth is that being happy, successful and relevant is not about marriage or being married. we’ve come far enough to know that’s just not true.
“You are the only one your age not married” please! Don’t let anyone place you there. Some women are lucky to get into marriage early and others don’t, pls don’t kill yourselves for it ! Your light will shine when your time comes. Don’t give into the social media hype, peer pressure.
Dont be desperate! Some African cultures~The society look down on you if you’re not married and overseas nobody cares whether your married or single, people go about their business. Not a big deal! People divorce and get married everyday. Listen! People will pressurize you, no doubt! But don’t let anyone that comes your way know that you are on a “husband hunt” pleaseeee….And most times desperation can even affect your new relationships without you knowing ~Before you know it ~Your are too forward to know where 2weeks or 1month relationship is heading to, Come on now people! Stop those lies that women of their age are married therefore they can’t get married anymore. Women!!! Focus on other things, marriage will come at the appointed time, don’t set into that level of desperation. Dont buy those lies they tell you! Sometimes you need to wait and take your time. Marriage certificate doesn’t validate a relationship*Mutual respect and love.
You’re still worthy of love! Being Single is not a curse thrust upon anyone. Just stop waiting and keep living~It will come when it will.