How We Sabotage Our Ability To Get Things Done….

May 27, 2018May 27, 2018 / sharonchyy / 18 Comments

>Don't Procrastinate! Just do It!!! I have written quite a lot lately about reaching a point where change is possible, moving forward is possible and it just takes that step or choice to make it happen. This is where many people get stuck in the hamster wheel of over analysis and procrastination. The “Manager” protector is usually very strong here.

We all do it. We convince ourselves that filing our tax return or planning that career move can wait until tomorrow or next week or next month. We bury our heads in the sand waiting for the right time, knowing that the right time is usually right now. We beat ourselves up because of it knowing that the only person who can change it is us. We become depressed and lose our self-esteem. Sound familiar? Then you are probably a procrastinator.

Webster’s dictionary defines procrastination as a verb, meaning to intentionally put off something that has to be done. Day…

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HOW TO BE FEMININE AND ATTRACTIVE

May 8, 2018May 8, 2018 / sharonchyy / 12 Comments

https://youtu.be/Muer5Q28d4s TIPS ON HOW TO BECOME MORE FEMININE We know some people are naturally born with feminine energy! But you can enhance your feminine energy: which is all about your mannerism, how you present yourself before the world. When a woman is attractive and magnetic, she have a particular energy about her, she’s glowing, she’s … Continue reading HOW TO BE FEMININE AND ATTRACTIVE

Sublimation – Turning Negative Urges into Positive Actions

May 3, 2018May 3, 2018 / sharonchyy / 20 Comments

Dr. Eric Perry’s Blog

By Dr. Perry, PhD

“Adopting the right attitude can convert a negative stress into a positive one.” ~Hans Selye

Sublimation is a subconscious psychological defense mechanism whereby we take a negative impulse and channel it into a positive behavior. This is similar to displacement (click here to refer to my earlier post on displacement) but instead of taking a negative impulse, such as aggression towards one’s boss, and displacing that negative feeling onto an innocent third party such as your husband or wife, we take the initial socially unacceptable impulse and direct it towards a positive action. We seek a positive alternative form of fulfillment for the initial destructive urge. According to Freud, the strength of the negative urge would define the strength of the positive outcome.

Our initial impulses can be subconsciously directed into a number of different areas. Here are some ways that we can engage in sublimation.

1. Anger/Emotional…

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